Comments on: It Always Ends The Same Way. http://darkjoy.smileandlookalive.com/?p=384 Sadness, turned to Loneliness. Mon, 19 Jul 2010 02:33:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: PrimeraEspada http://darkjoy.smileandlookalive.com/?p=384&cpage=1#comment-70 PrimeraEspada Fri, 26 Feb 2010 02:15:19 +0000 http://darkjoy.smileandlookalive.com/?p=384#comment-70 Oh lisa, your words are truth. You'll be disappointed to know that I've already broken my resolution to keep Jane away...more details to come in the next post...which is in progress. Oh lisa, your words are truth. You’ll be disappointed to know that I’ve already broken my resolution to keep Jane away…more details to come in the next post…which is in progress.

]]> By: Lisa Loveless http://darkjoy.smileandlookalive.com/?p=384&cpage=1#comment-69 Lisa Loveless Thu, 25 Feb 2010 18:26:12 +0000 http://darkjoy.smileandlookalive.com/?p=384#comment-69 Love inspiries all sorts of 'crazy'. Anger, frustration, resentment...intensity in all shapes and sizes. Love tests our level of compassion, patience, and understanding of each other. I wouldn't be surprized if you heard from Jane again in your lifetime. But one thing is for sure, you should be closing all forms of visibility/communication with her so she's not tempted to have a premature re-appearance into your life :) Love inspiries all sorts of ‘crazy’. Anger, frustration, resentment…intensity in all shapes and sizes. Love tests our level of compassion, patience, and understanding of each other.
I wouldn’t be surprized if you heard from Jane again in your lifetime. But one thing is for sure, you should be closing all forms of visibility/communication with her so she’s not tempted to have a premature re-appearance into your life :)

]]> By: PrimeraEspada http://darkjoy.smileandlookalive.com/?p=384&cpage=1#comment-68 PrimeraEspada Thu, 18 Feb 2010 01:19:23 +0000 http://darkjoy.smileandlookalive.com/?p=384#comment-68 You're so sweet! I like your expression "caspers in her past". Cute. I did block her from msn, but haven't bothered with the rest. I'm not tempted to call or email or whatever. And lately I've been thinking that I need to rid myself of not just her, but M. as well. They were both great experiences last year, but they were also a huge part of the lows of my 2009. Maybe I should just leave them there, and start fresh. Thanks for your support. :) You’re so sweet! I like your expression “caspers in her past”. Cute.

I did block her from msn, but haven’t bothered with the rest. I’m not tempted to call or email or whatever. And lately I’ve been thinking that I need to rid myself of not just her, but M. as well. They were both great experiences last year, but they were also a huge part of the lows of my 2009. Maybe I should just leave them there, and start fresh.

Thanks for your support. :)

]]> By: shans http://darkjoy.smileandlookalive.com/?p=384&cpage=1#comment-67 shans Wed, 17 Feb 2010 17:31:32 +0000 http://darkjoy.smileandlookalive.com/?p=384#comment-67 lol! Thanks for using the words ''sneaky'' and ''paying close attention'' to describe my obsession with you. Kidding, almost, but you know that ;) You aren't a sucker, you have a good heart and from what I know, the perfect man to be with. Too bad there is this thing called marriage and 2 (almost) 3 kids holding me back from keeping you all to myself!!! You have to let her go. It seems like it's just the same thing over and over again. I would even say, delete her from your friends, block her from MSN, delete her # from your phone... but I don't think you would. I think she does want to be with you...but the caspers in her past aren't letting her. She is afraid to get hurt not just by you but by anybody. Using the M situation is just an excuse. Maybe she doesn't know it, but it wouldn't take much for her to win you over...you already love her! Anyway, I am rambling...you deserve to be happy. That's it. lol! Thanks for using the words ”sneaky” and ”paying close attention” to describe my obsession with you. Kidding, almost, but you know that ;)

You aren’t a sucker, you have a good heart and from what I know, the perfect man to be with. Too bad there is this thing called marriage and 2 (almost) 3 kids holding me back from keeping you all to myself!!!

You have to let her go. It seems like it’s just the same thing over and over again. I would even say, delete her from your friends, block her from MSN, delete her # from your phone… but I don’t think you would. I think she does want to be with you…but the caspers in her past aren’t letting her. She is afraid to get hurt not just by you but by anybody. Using the M situation is just an excuse. Maybe she doesn’t know it, but it wouldn’t take much for her to win you over…you already love her!

Anyway, I am rambling…you deserve to be happy. That’s it.

]]> By: PrimeraEspada http://darkjoy.smileandlookalive.com/?p=384&cpage=1#comment-66 PrimeraEspada Sat, 13 Feb 2010 19:56:55 +0000 http://darkjoy.smileandlookalive.com/?p=384#comment-66 Haahaha...you are sneaky Shans...you're still paying close attention I see! I don't know what my next title will be, depends on my mood. I'm smiling so much right now. :) You know, your advice is exactly what's going through my head. Just let her go, it's not possible to make something work when only one side (me) is willing to work out our communication problems. And I'm trying hard to resist the urge to write messages (you know me a little too well damn it!) to coax her into coming around, but I don't think it would do any good right now. It would also be pointless to try to work it out with Jane while I still haven't resolved things with M. I don't know. It's the same story as before. The chemistry is undeniable, but the way she and I have managed conflicts reeks of failure. She doesn't think (for now) that we can overcome that, and I'm starting to have my doubts...but I'm not prepared to give up... I'm such sucker. Haahaha…you are sneaky Shans…you’re still paying close attention I see! I don’t know what my next title will be, depends on my mood. I’m smiling so much right now. :)

You know, your advice is exactly what’s going through my head. Just let her go, it’s not possible to make something work when only one side (me) is willing to work out our communication problems. And I’m trying hard to resist the urge to write messages (you know me a little too well damn it!) to coax her into coming around, but I don’t think it would do any good right now. It would also be pointless to try to work it out with Jane while I still haven’t resolved things with M.

I don’t know. It’s the same story as before. The chemistry is undeniable, but the way she and I have managed conflicts reeks of failure. She doesn’t think (for now) that we can overcome that, and I’m starting to have my doubts…but I’m not prepared to give up…

I’m such sucker.

]]> By: shans http://darkjoy.smileandlookalive.com/?p=384&cpage=1#comment-65 shans Sat, 13 Feb 2010 14:31:47 +0000 http://darkjoy.smileandlookalive.com/?p=384#comment-65 For all the times I surprised myself (and you) by saying ''Give it time''....''if she is worth it...hold on'' blah, blah, blah... I now have a strong urge to tell you to let the girl go. Ignore her messages...don't be tempted to write her back, try to stop thinking about her and so on & so on. BUT at the same time, I can't help but think...this girl must look damn good wearing a few shades of crazy because you can't let her go! Ahhh Dark Knight...thank you for sharing your most secret thoughts, it is a nice, a welcomed distraction from my complicated, but happy little life! And I get it... next one will be called Don't make me laugh. Damn I am good (I think). Luv, luv!!!! For all the times I surprised myself (and you) by saying ”Give it time”….”if she is worth it…hold on” blah, blah, blah… I now have a strong urge to tell you to let the girl go. Ignore her messages…don’t be tempted to write her back, try to stop thinking about her and so on & so on. BUT at the same time, I can’t help but think…this girl must look damn good wearing a few shades of crazy because you can’t let her go! Ahhh Dark Knight…thank you for sharing your most secret thoughts, it is a nice, a welcomed distraction from my complicated, but happy little life! And I get it… next one will be called Don’t make me laugh. Damn I am good (I think). Luv, luv!!!!

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